Meet my Littles.

Canaan Elias Kungwa, age 7, 2nd grade
Israel Hughes Kigundu, age 3, Preschool

My role of mom is one I would never trade. It is difficult, not glamorous, and yet rewarding. Overall, I would never trade it. Some days, I have considered it. Today, was one of those days.

My boys are involved in EVERYTHING. Soccer, Martial Arts, Drums, Adventurer Club (Church version of Boy Scouts), Children’s choir, Church Plays, and Swim. They love every minute of it and so do I. I love watching them master new skills and explore new experiences. And yes, I am THAT mom. My boys are my legacy and will impact this world. I ensure they have every opportunity to make decisions on what type of future is best for them. And at this age, I believe that is through school, play, and experiences.

I have made certain choices.

No to a nanny.

Yes to Daycare/Preschool.

Yes to Public School.

No to higher career positions requiring moving or more travel.

No to working from home (Not conducive to my personality. I would be very unproductive).

Yes to attending every practice, parent teacher conference, recital, and event even if sometimes it is by phone or video chat.

My role of Mom edges out my role of career woman even though both are important to me. I know that if I am stressed, overwhelmed, unsettled in my Mom role, I will absolutely not focus at work. And my career is important to me. I also know that in those moments I am not practicing patience, being present, or caring for Littles as I would like. Minimalism has allowed me peace in my parenting, peace in my living space, and time with my family. Becoming a minimalist allowed me to become aware of the need for harmony and congruence in my daily life. I am now in my Mom role everyday even when I am at work. Even when I am traveling for work. Realizing that I could not compartmentalize this part of myself was a game changer. I am able to allow myself grace and kindness as I am a parent and a professional at the same time. My mom role is intertwined throughout each day. It’s simply how I maintain harmony.

What are your daily responsibilities?

And what has you overwhelmed with everything?

Minimalism can help.

Drop me a note.

RS